Impersonal love

Very often - severeal times a day - I say "I love you" to my wife. What I really mean when I say those "magic" words is something like "Your precense makes my Self experience the universal force of love, the nondual nature of kosmos and the ever-existing energy of happiness".

Love is impersonal, by nature. Who is the "I" that loves?   and how could that "I" love just one person, unless this person was so very special that she was the one missing piece that made me perfect? - and if she was that single unique piece, wouldn't she have to stay the same, not to destroy the achieved perfectness?
 
My wife is contantly developing new ideas, gaining new insights, developing new skills. And this innner evolution also shows in her outer looks; she get even more beautiful every day. Every time I look at her, I look at a new and improved person - and because I try to keep up, my eyes and the way I see her evolves. Until now my Self have loved every instance of her - and I see no sign of change.

I love the process, and being with her makes me experience constant development. This makes me feel an integrated part of the evolving universe - and this feeling is the experiencce of love. True impersonal love.