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March 2009 
Start of a tantric relationship
Posted on Dec 21st, 2008
by 
knudriis
knudriis
I am a lucky guy.
When I think back on the path of my earlier relationships, i am not impressed. I have been in several (many) relations with beautiful, caring and lovely women. And I lied, cheated and betrayed - even my mistresses.
Five years ago, I met my current wife. Actually we have known each others for more than 20 years, we were even guests at each others first weddings. But our ways separated, and we hadn't seen each other for five years at the time.
It was not love at second sight, it was more of a revitalization of a close friendship. We put our cards on the table. All the cards, face up.
We decided that we would be each others watchdogs. We should help each other always to be honest, always to keep the highest possible perspective.
And since none of us had a partner, we could just as well have sex together. That would prevent us both from falling into the traps of bad relationship, we thought. Of course we could easily fall into that trap together, we realized. So we decidede that our relation could only last for two years. After that we would have to evaluate and decide where and how to go. Together or separate.
That decision made us take great care of our relationship. Our time together would end, we both thought, so we had to take the great care of those two precious years.
When I think back on the path of my earlier relationships, i am not impressed. I have been in several (many) relations with beautiful, caring and lovely women. And I lied, cheated and betrayed - even my mistresses.
Five years ago, I met my current wife. Actually we have known each others for more than 20 years, we were even guests at each others first weddings. But our ways separated, and we hadn't seen each other for five years at the time.
It was not love at second sight, it was more of a revitalization of a close friendship. We put our cards on the table. All the cards, face up.
We decided that we would be each others watchdogs. We should help each other always to be honest, always to keep the highest possible perspective.
And since none of us had a partner, we could just as well have sex together. That would prevent us both from falling into the traps of bad relationship, we thought. Of course we could easily fall into that trap together, we realized. So we decidede that our relation could only last for two years. After that we would have to evaluate and decide where and how to go. Together or separate.
That decision made us take great care of our relationship. Our time together would end, we both thought, so we had to take the great care of those two precious years.
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